In this Memorial Day episode of Hope for the Caregiver, I open up about one of the hardest—and most overlooked—struggles caregivers face: resentment. After more than 40 years in this journey, I’ve learned that it’s not just the physical exhaustion that wears us down—it’s the internal striving, the bitterness, and the sense of being forgotten.

In this episode, I talk about:

The difference between sleep and true rest

Why striving leaves us drained and bitter

A quote from my new book, A Caregiver’s Companion, and the hymn that goes with it

How gratitude becomes the antidote to resentment

And what one surprising verse in Matthew 1:6 reveals about God’s justice, memory, and hope for caregivers

I also share a story from the hospital room—something small, but sacred—that brought the Gospel into sharp focus for me. If you're weary, grieving, or stuck in resentment, I hope this message will point you toward the rest only Christ can give.