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061: Whatever You Look For, You Will Find
March 11, 2025 · 23 min

Have you ever considered that the things you focus on in your life are exactly what you find?

In this episode, "Whatever You Look For, You Will Find," Evan and Susan Money dive into the powerful concept of intentional focus and how it affects your life and relationships.

The episode kicks off with the provocative notion that whatever you seek, you will indeed find. Through engaging discussions, Evan and Susan explore how this idea manifests in everything from hunting for treasure to noticing everyday occurrences like estate sales or pregnant women. They emphasize the importance of what you choose to focus on, particularly in marriage, sharing that focusing on your partner's positives can foster a more fulfilling and supportive relationship.

A key highlight is the discussion on how the brain, not the eyes, determines what we see, a concept enhanced through personal anecdotes about antique furniture hunting and the daily dynamics of marriage. Susan shares the importance of focusing on positive aspects as guided by Philippians 4:8, encouraging listeners to fix their thoughts on what is true and noble.

To bring these lessons to life, the Money team urges listeners to intentionally shift focus from annoyances in their marriage to the attributes they appreciate. By doing so, you can enrich your relationships and personal life.

For actionable takeaways:

Reflect on what you are actively looking for in your relationships.

Choose to focus on the aspects that bring joy and positivity.

Engage in mental exercises that redirect your focus onto the virtues of your partner, echoing the scriptural guidance shared in the episode.

This episode underscores the power of intention in shaping the quality of your life and relationships. To stay connected and deepen your understanding, follow Evan and Susan's journey towards 100 weddings at EvanLoveSusan.com and marriageofgreatness.com. Tune in to apply these insights and elevate your own Marriage of Greatness today.