The IT Girl Life

🎙 Episode 33.2: Mo’ Money, Mo’ ProblemsSeason 2, Episode 3✨ Summary – It Girl Life Style: This week, we’re spilling the real tea on dream jobs and dollar signs. Meredith and Mishelle are back with a heart-to-heart on what it actually takes to chase your passion and pay the bills. From Mishelle’s soul-lit love of coaching to Meredith’s postal fantasies (yes, really), the convo goes deep into what fulfillment looks like when you're balancing big dreams with real-life responsibilities. 💼💸💭They unpack their own career detours, dish out advice for the next gen of glow-getters, and remind us all that you can live your best life without sacrificing security. Fulfillment doesn't have to come with a paycheck—sometimes it starts with just getting to know you. If you’ve ever asked yourself “Can I really do what I love and make money?”—this one’s for you, babe. 🌟🎧 Listen for: 💬 “You can start over so many times.” 💬 “Don’t give up on your dreams.” 💬 “Get to know yourself better early.”

Let’s talk about it—because words might not break your bones, but they can definitely bruise your soul (and maybe start a group chat war). 😅In this episode, Mishelle and Meredith are peeling back the emotional layers of argument styles, sensitivity, and that blurry AF line between constructive criticism and straight-up toxic communication. From passive-aggressive subtweets to full-blown fights, they get real about how we show up when emotions run high—and how to do better.Through personal stories and hot takes, they explore how self-awareness and emotional intelligence are the ultimate communication glow-ups. Because being “too sensitive” isn’t the problem—unexamined communication habits are.✨ What You’ll Hear:Mishelle’s confessions about mood-based arguing (relatable)Meredith’s take on logic-first communication & why feelings still matterWhy “you’re too sensitive” is a lazy response—and what to say insteadHow to spot the difference between feedback and shadeThe link between toxic communication and unhealed stuffTools to give and receive feedback without losing your cool (or your confidence)A reminder to pause before clapping back—you’re evolved now, remember?This ep is your permission slip to own your voice, refine your delivery, and stop letting subtweets run your relationships. 👑

Episode 31: Spilling the BeansWe’re baaaaack! 💋 Meredith & Mishelle are back in the studio kicking off Season Two with a juicy convo all about friendship, secrets, and calling people out—with love. 👀This episode dives into the sticky situations we all find ourselves in—like when your bestie’s making bad decisions, or someone in your friend group drops a truth bomb (or hides one). How do you show up for the people you love without turning into the friendship police? We get real about the fine line between support and overstepping, and how to handle those “do I say something or stay out of it?” moments with grace, integrity, and a little sass.In this episode, we talk about:Why Meredith can’t keep a surprise to save her life 😂Mishelle’s take on why integrity matters when it comes to secretsWhat to do when your friend is spiraling into bad decisionsThe respectful way to ask before offering adviceThe art of guiding friends through questions, not lecturesThe gray area of mutual friends + shared secretsWhen it’s time to lovingly interveneHow to stay honest without wrecking the friendshipAnd why communication is everything💌 Got a sticky situation you want us to unpack? Submit your burning Qs at itgirllife.com or email us at hello@itgirllife.com. We might just talk about it on the pod.

It’s been a minute, but The It Girl Life is BACK! In this mini episode, we’re catching you up on everything—where we’ve been, what’s been going on behind the scenes, and what’s next for the podcast. We’re sharing our vision for the upcoming season, the topics we can’t wait to dive into, and how you can be part of the conversation.New episodes are coming soon, and trust us—you don’t want to miss what’s ahead. Hit play, get caught up, and let us know what you want to hear this season!🎧 Listen now and subscribe so you never miss an episode!

In this conversation, Mishelle and Meredith discuss the importance of self-care and treating oneself as a means to enhance personal joy and well-being. They explore the philosophy of 'paying oneself first' to create opportunities for self-indulgence and the significance of open communication in managing household responsibilities. The discussion also emphasizes the value of teaching children about chores and responsibilities to foster their independence and self-worth. Ultimately, the conversation advocates for setting boundaries, appreciating oneself, and the necessity of asking for help in relationships.key takeaways:Pay yourself first to allow for self-care.Treating yourself is essential for personal joy.Open communication is crucial in household dynamics.Setting clear expectations can alleviate frustration.Children should be given chores to foster responsibility.Self-care can take many forms, including spa days.It's important to acknowledge your own needs and desires.Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.Boundaries are necessary for healthy relationships.Recognizing the impact of your actions on others is vital.

In this episode, Mishelle and Meredith discuss the significance of New Year's resolutions and the importance of setting intentions for the year ahead. They explore various strategies for sticking to resolutions, the role of gratitude and reflection in personal growth, and the idea that every moment is an opportunity to start anew. The conversation emphasizes the importance of being kind to oneself and celebrating small accomplishments throughout the year.Key Takeaways:Living with intentionality can guide your actions.Breaking resolutions into smaller, manageable pieces is key.Consistency is more important than perfection.Accountability partners can help keep you on track.Reflecting on personal growth is as important as achieving goals.Celebrate small wins to maintain motivation.Resolutions should be realistic and sustainable.Gratitude can shift your focus from what you lack to what you have.Every day is a new opportunity to start fresh.Understanding your personal motivations can lead to better resolutions.

In this episode, Mishelle and Meredith discuss the importance of feeling heard in relationships, particularly in the context of parenting. They explore how to navigate disagreements, find common ground, and communicate effectively with partners. The conversation emphasizes the need for patience, understanding, and continuous growth in relationships, highlighting that it's essential to approach conflicts as a team rather than as adversaries.Key Takeaways:People often have unsolicited opinions they want to share.It's important to feel heard and valued in conversations.Conflict with a spouse can arise from misalignment in parenting styles.Understanding each other's perspectives is crucial for resolution.Communication should be approached with kindness and openness.Compromise is key in disagreements about parenting and finances.Writing down feelings can help in processing emotions before discussions.Patience is necessary for ongoing conversations about relationship dynamics.Recognizing that both partners are learning together can ease tensions.The willingness to address issues is the first step towards improvement.

In this episode, Meredith and Mishelle discuss the challenges of hard work, particularly during the pandemic, and explore the question of whether employees should work harder than their bosses. They share personal experiences of difficult jobs and emphasize the importance of setting clear expectations in the workplace. The conversation highlights the significance of personal integrity and finding fulfillment in one's work, regardless of the effort level of superiors.Key Takeaways:The hardest jobs often teach valuable lessons.Working hard doesn't always mean longer hours.Clear expectations from bosses are crucial for employee success.Personal integrity should guide work ethic.Surround yourself with inspiring and hardworking individuals.It's important to communicate with your boss about expectations.Being busy doesn't equate to being productive.Recognizing your own standards of hard work is essential.Leadership requires different skills than functional tasks.Career growth often comes from showing initiative and drive.

In this episode, Meredith and Mishelle share personal life updates, discussing their transitions, challenges, and the importance of community support. They delve into the themes of grief and healing, emphasizing the need for self-care and setting boundaries. The conversation highlights the journey of rediscovering oneself amidst life's changes and the significance of celebrating life even in the face of loss.key takeawaysLife can be unpredictable, and it's important to embrace authenticity.Transitions can be challenging, but they also offer opportunities for growth.Grief is a personal journey, and everyone experiences it differently.It's essential to lean on your community during tough times.Rediscovering passions can be a form of healing.Self-care is crucial, especially during periods of stress.Setting boundaries is important for mental health.Celebrating the lives of loved ones can help in the grieving process.Taking breaks is necessary for personal well-being.You have the power to create your future, regardless of your past.

In this episode, Mishelle and Meredith discuss the complexities of social interactions, particularly focusing on the theme of 'overstaying your welcome.' They explore how to navigate leaving parties, the challenges of hosting guests who overstay, and the importance of setting boundaries and clear expectations. The conversation emphasizes the need for honest communication and the balance between being supportive and maintaining personal space.